The Long & Short Of It: The Cons Of A Long Distance Relationship, Because There Are No Pros

Vivian (Pretty Woman): When I was a little girl, my mama used to lock me in the attic when I was bad, which was pretty often. And I would pretend I was a princess... trapped in a tower by a wicked queen. And then suddenly this knight... on a white horse with these colors flying would come charging up and draw his sword. And I would wave. And he would climb up the tower and rescue me. But never in all the time... that I had this dream did the knight say to me, "Come on, baby, I'll put you up in a great condo."

Somebody telling you that they love you and that they will be back for you one day may seem like a good deal to some, but not to all.

If you have ever been torn about whether to pursue or continue a long distance relationship, you should observe the cons of a long distance relationship. Clear your schedule because the list of cons is long.

There are feelings of loneliness and emptiness. It is emotionally stressful. There is no physical intimacy. You can’t spend quality time with your partner or engage in fun activities with them. There are misunderstandings and conflicts that are not resolved when there is a serious breakdown in communication. You can’t be there for each other during unpredictable events. There may also be trust issues that arise. Instead of appreciating each other and your friendship more you end up resenting the sacrifices you need to make to be together.

Maintaining a long distance relationship can be one of the most trying experiences of your life. Adjusting to life without the presence of a loved one can make everyday life a harrowing process. It's painful to be so removed from your partner's life. If you are unsure if you should continue or develop a long distance relationship with someone you care about, it will be up to you to make the decision. It can be very difficult to cope with dating someone who lives so far away from you. There can be a lot of frustration and misunderstandings that are created from being apart for so long. Sometimes the distance is insurmountable, but if it is meant to be then you can possibly successfully be reunited again someday. Unfortunately, in the meantime, if you are separated, it is difficult to continue and enjoy the relationship.